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Cachet V-Neckline Cuffed Sleeve Twisted Front Satin Modest Long Dress
Regular price $199.99 Sale price $44.00 Save 78%
V-Neckline Cuffed Sleeve Twisted Front Satin Long Dress. Lined. By Cachet.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
Mika Modest Maxi Dress - Black
Regular price $89.50
This peasant-style dress stands out for its classy shade and breezy silhouette. It's cut for a loose fit from cotton-voile and has a V-neckline and voluminous tiered skirt. Mika Maxi Dress is decorated with detailed lace edging. Contrast yours with boho-chic accessories!
- Slips on
- Made of the finest 100% cotton
- Machine wash cold
- Made in Turkey
Size & Fit Information:
- Cut for a loose fit
- Mid-weight, non-stretchy fabric
- S | Bust: 37”, Length: 49”
- M | Bust: 39”, Length: 49”
- L | Bust: 42”, Length: 49
- Slips on
- Made of the finest 100% cotton
- Machine wash cold
- Made in Turkey
Size & Fit Information:
- Cut for a loose fit
- Mid-weight, non-stretchy fabric
- S | Bust: 37”, Length: 49”
- M | Bust: 39”, Length: 49”
- L | Bust: 42”, Length: 49
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
Butterfly Dress Designer Modest Dress, Maxi or Midi Length
Regular price $582.50 Sale price $397.75 Save 32%Care instructions: Machine washable, no dry cleaning needed.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
MARJORIE Stretch Bamboo Ruffle Midi Dress in Off-white, Modest Dresses
Regular price $159.90Simple yet sophisticated, our Marjorie Dress is a closet staple that is perfect for any occasion; from formal wedding celebrations to lunch dates on the terrace with friends. Complete with a round neckline, ¾ sleeves with ruffle cuff detail, and a flattering sheath silhouette, this effortless midi dress is designed to give you a classy and feminine fit. Pair your favorite espadrilles and clutch purse for a soft and chic look.
SUSTAINABILITY
Our Marjorie modest dress is made with OEKO-tex certified sustainable Viscose spandex fabric. OEKO-tex ensure that each product is made with non-toxic materials that are harmless for human health.
DETAILS
- Mid-calf length.
- Composition: 74% OEKO-Tex Viscose, 24% Polyester, 2% Spandex.
- Made with comfortable stretchy viscose spandex fabric.
- Ruffle cuff details on each sleeves.
- Rib textured fabric
- Color: off-white.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
MARJORIE Stretch Ruffle Midi Dress in Camel Brown, Modest Dresses
Regular price $165.74Simple yet sophisticated, our Marjorie Dress is a closet staple that is perfect for any occasion; from formal wedding celebrations to lunch dates on the terrace with friends. Complete with a round neckline, ¾ sleeves with ruffle cuff detail, and a flattering sheath silhouette, this effortless midi dress is designed to give you a classy and feminine fit. Pair your favorite espadrilles and clutch purse for a soft and chic look.
SUSTAINABILITY
Our Marjorie modest dress is made with OEKO-tex certified sustainable Viscose spandex fabric. OEKO-tex ensure that each product is made with non-toxic materials that are harmless for human health.
DETAILS
- Composition: 74% OEKO-Tex Viscose, 24% Polyester, 2% Spandex.
- Made with comfortable stretchy viscose spandex fabric.
- Ruffle cuff details on each sleeves.
- Rib textured fabric
- Color: Camel brown.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
MARJORIE Ruffle Rib Stretch Midi Dress in Dark Brown, Modest Dresses
Regular price $165.74Simple yet sophisticated, our Marjorie Dress is a closet staple that is perfect for any occasion; from formal wedding celebrations to lunch dates on the terrace with friends. Complete with a round neckline, ¾ sleeves with ruffle cuff detail, and a flattering sheath silhouette, this effortless midi dress is designed to give you a classy and feminine fit. Pair your favorite espadrilles and clutch purse for a soft and chic look.
SUSTAINABILITY
Our Marjorie modest dress is made with sustainable OEKO-Tex Lenzing Viscose spandex fabric. OEKO-tex ensure that each product is made with non-toxic materials that are harmless for human health.
DETAILS
- Composition: 74% OEKO-Tex Lenzing Viscose, 24% Polyester, 2% Spandex.
- Made with comfortable stretchy viscose spandex fabric.
- Ruffle cuff details on each sleeve.
- Rib textured fabric
- Color: dark brown.
- Body contour, elastic fabric.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
ARYA Safari Linen Midi Dress in Black, Modest Dresses
Regular price $169.99 Sale price $99.00 Save 42%Love is in the air. Embark on a new journey with this elegant and comfortable-wear Arya Safari Modest Midi Shirt Dress. Feel the softness of its woven 100% natural Linen fabric with button-down closure and linen belt. Completed with 2 spacious pockets on each sides. Sewn by local artisans in Bali who work from the comfort of their homes while nurturing their families.
• Composition: 100% Linen
• Color: Black
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
MADELEINE Prairie Midi Dress in White, Modest Dresses
Regular price $159.00 Sale price $54.00 Save 66%Our classic and captivating Madeleine Dress with its relaxed silhouette is a must-have for your closet collection. It’s even made to be worn anywhere, from heading to the office to leaving for dinner date under the city lights. Complete with two tassels, a drawstring waist, and ruffle detail at the bottom, this modest midi dress gives you a minimalistic yet sophisticated vibe. For a perfect take on a soft and feminine style, add a small handbag as the final touch.
DETAILS
- Composition: 100% Cotton
- Midi modest dress
- Dotted cotton fabric
- Fitting: relaxed fit
- Biodegradable
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
Rosemary Dotted Plaid Cotton Dress in Off-white, Modest Dresses
Regular price $168.34Our sweet Rosemary dress encapsulates the spirit of warm coastal summers. Wear this dress to allow yourself to feel fabulous inside and out. This adorable midi dress is cut from semi-sheer dotted plaid cotton and has graceful puff sleeves and a tiered skirt. Wear a slip for more coverage. Made by independent sewists, mostly female, who work from the comfort of their own home in Bali, Indonesia.
Details:- Composition: 100% Cotton
- Semi-sheer
- Made by artisans in Bali, Indonesia.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
ARYA Safari Linen Midi Dress in Beige, Modest Dresses
Regular price $210.00 Sale price $149.00 Save 29%Embark on a new journey with this elegant travel-ready Arya Safari Midi Dress. Enjoy the comfort and durability of its recycled fabric made from Repreve's plastic bottle waste. With its fluid and stain-resistant features, this dress is made for every travel destination whether you're exploring the open savanna or sightseeing in the city.
Completed with button-down closure, a belt, and 2 spacious pockets on each side to keep your travel essentials. Sewn by local artisans in Bali who work from the comfort of their homes while nurturing their families.
DETAILS
• Composition: 100% REPREVE's Recycled Plastic Bottle fabric
• Color: Savanna Beige
• Fluid & stain resistant
• Care & Instruction: machine wash in cold water, iron in low-temperature.
• Made by artisans in Bali
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
ROSEMARY Cotton Prairie Dress in Black, Modest Midi Dress in Black
Regular price $159.55Our sweet Rosemary dress encapsulates the spirit of warm coastal summers. Wear this dress to allow yourself to feel fabulous inside and out. This adorable midi dress is cut from light cotton fabric and has graceful puff sleeves and a tiered skirt. Made by independent sewists, mostly female, who work from the comfort of their own home in Bali, Indonesia.
Details:
- Composition: 100% Cotton
- Made by artisans in Bali, Indonesia.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
Meghan Crinkle Midi Dress in Off-White, Modest White Dress
Regular price $149.00Designed to flatter all figures, this Meghan dress is our new most favorite silhouette. We carefully choose the most comfortable natural fiber fabric to create a purposeful piece that works at home or on the go.
This charming Gingham midi dress is crafted from cotton fabric featuring an elegant V-neck, removable knot fabric belt, and balloon sleeves. Style yours with matching neck twilly and your favorite espadrilles.
DETAILS
- Composition: 100% Cotton
- Dry clean or machine wash in slow cycle
- Made by female sewists in Bali
- Model is wearing sample size small
- Loose fitting, semi-sheer
SUSTAINABILITY
- Made with natural fiber fabric
- Sewn with Oeko tex certified sewing threads
- Sewn by local sewist in Bali from the comfort of their own home
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
MARJORIE Bamboo Ruffle Dress in Black, Modest Midi Dress
Regular price $149.00Simple yet sophisticated, our Marjorie Dress is a closet staple that is perfect for any occasion; from formal wedding celebrations to lunch dates on the terrace with friends. Complete with a round neckline, ¾ sleeves with ruffle cuff detail, and a flattering sheath silhouette, this effortless midi dress is designed to give you a classy and feminine fit. Pair your favorite espadrilles and clutch purse for a soft and chic look.
SUSTAINABILITY
Our Marjorie dress is made with the softest Bamboo terry spandex fabric. Bamboo fabric is known for its comfort (its softness is the closest to silk), very breathable, moisture-wicking, fast drying, thermal regulating and sustainability. Bamboo is a fast-growing grass, which requires no fertilizer nor pesticides and self-regenerates from its own roots, so it doesn’t need to be replanted.
- Antibacterial: Bamboo is naturally antibacterial due to a bio-agent that the Japanese have called “kun,” which resists the growth of bacteria on the fiber. This is normally carried through to the finished product, allowing it also to resist the growth of bacteria that causes odors even after numerous washings. This eliminates the need for anti-microbial chemical treatment, which is known to cause an allergic reactions and is environmentally unfriendly. This also means that the garment will have to be washed less often, saving energy and making clothes last longer.
- Easy Care and Energy Efficient: Bamboo is machine washable in cool water. Environmentally unfriendly and unhealthy fabric softeners are not needed or recommended.
DETAILS
- Composition: 92% Bamboo, 8% Spandex.
- Made with comfortable stretchy viscose spandex fabric.
- Ruffle cuff details on each sleeve.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
OLYMPIA Embroidered Cotton Dress, Modest Maxi Dress with Sleeves
Regular price $249.00Inspired by vintage gowns, our Olympia dress is an ode to feminism through its intricate floral motif. This A-line maxi dress showcases embroidered clover flower accents and classic puffed sleeves. It's made in Bali from 100% embroidered cotton fabric by local sewists from their homes.
Details:
Fabric: 100% Cotton, Embroidered
Color: White
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.
Modest Midi Dress with Sleeves, Pockets, Modest Christmas Dresses, Modest Bridesmaid Dress
Sale price $64.58Solid, Midi Dress with a round neckline, side pockets, and a pleated bodice. Manufactured in U.S.A. 5 colors available.
Important Notes:
- Please be aware that different products may have different size charts.
- Size charts refer to your body measurements, not clothing dimensions. Choose the size that matches your body measurements, and the clothes will have slightly larger measurements in order to fit comfortably.
- If your measurements are between two sizes, we recommend choosing the larger of the two.
- If you are unsure, you can always order 2 different sizes and return the one that doesn't work. You can get a full refund and you have 30 days to return it.
How to Measure Yourself
- Bust - Use a cloth measuring tape and bring it around your back and across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. When measuring your bust, you are not measuring your bra size! Measure the fullest part of your chest OVER the bra cup. Try to wear the bra or undergarment you are intending to use with the dress for a more accurate measurement.
- Waist - Measure around the narrowest part of your torso. Your waist is measured where the measuring tape is sitting. Be sure not to suck in your stomach.
- Hips - Measure yourself with your feet close together, bring the tape around the widest part of your hips, right across the hip bone.